What strategies do you use to increase comfort in your daily life?
I have learnt how to say no when I know it will unseat my comfortability physically, financially, spiritually and emotionally . I get easily disturbed over everything (to some people its nothing).
Thus, in order to increase my comfortability aside eating good food and taking a good rest, I say NO when I know it will disturb me mentally.
What are you most excited about for the future?
I am excited that one day, my girls will grow, get married and bear beautiful children. The joy of being called a grandmother is epic.
What could you let go of, for the sake of harmony?
My ego. Very dear to me but if it will improve peace and harmony, why not!
What is your favorite genre of music?
RnB anyday anytime
Describe your most memorable vacation.
I will say my trip to Ghana few years ago. I was woken up by my husband that day with breakfast in bed. It was not our anniversary or birthday so no occasion to warrant the beautiful treatment.
After breakfast, we took our bath together, he told me to dress up to go out, casually I did.
I never knew he had surprises on his sleeves. He drive to Muritala Muhammed airport , and gave me my ticket to Accra Ghana. He had packed my luggage while I was asleep, and put in the car.
We had the best vacation ever. We lodged at LABADI Beach HOTEL. I remember we visited beautiful places like KWAMEH NKRUMAH MEMORIAL PARK, MOKOLA MARKET where we got customized sandals, bracelets, Tshirts, bags and other souvenirs, ACCRA MALL where we watched two movies and ate pizza and ice cream. We also got quality Kente cloth in a store at the mall.
I cannot forget the LABADI PLEASURE BEACH, NATIONAL MUSEUM OF GHANA, OSU CASTLE, INDEPENDENCE SQUARE, BOJO BEACH, and this sumptuously prepared Nigerian food we ate in a local restaurant. The queenly treatment we got also at LABADI SPA, it must not go unmentioned Their restaurant section too, very neat and continental.
Ghana is a beautiful country. Wonderful people, ever smiling and ready to help strangers navigate and stay comfortable.
Next country is Kenya. I trust I will have sweet memories to share!
On what subject(s) are you an authority?
Love. Life hacks. Marriage.
What’s your definition of romantic?
Romantic thrills, sends shrills down the spine.
Romantic listens not just hearing .
Romantic is not just anywhere; it is not just somewhere; it is not found nowhere; it is not seen everywhere. Romantic is right there when needed to soothe pains, give a shoulder to cry on, advise, tend emotional gardens, attend to sexual needs, fend for material needs.
Romantic is the completeness of love triangle.
How do you express your gratitude?
1. Words: Whether to God or Humans, I sat words like thank you, I am grateful, Bless you.
2. Act of kindness to reciprocate
3. Prayers to God to bless the giver.
4. Sing songs of Thanksgiving and praises to God for His mercies that endure forever
What are you most worried about for the future?
Loneliness. Empty nest.
My kids are girls. I am worried that one day when they get married and leave for their husbands houses, I and my husband will be alone again. Lols. Selfish right?
But the joy of it is that God has.not given us the spirit of fear. It is bound to happen one day, a day I will hear “Mom, my boyfriend proposed – we are getting married?”.
What makes a teacher great?
Knowing what to teach, who to teach, when to teach and how to teach it.
Ifedolapo Ogunniyi 